“Come in, my lord. Come in with me. Don’t be afraid.”
Judges 4:18 CSB.
Between her feet he bowed, he fell, he lay;
Between her feet he bowed, he fell;
Where he bowed, there he fell dead.
Judges 5:27 NASB
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Sexual Innuendo in Jael’s Stories
The accounts of Jael’s actions in Judges 4 and in Judges 5 are slightly different. In Judges 4, Jael strikes Sisera while he is asleep and lying down. The scene is quiet (see 4:21) except for the cracking of Sisera’s skull. In Judges 5, Sisera appears to be awake, perhaps standing, when Jael seemingly catches him off guard and strikes.
Furthermore, while in Judges 4 there is sexual innuendo in Jael’s invitation into her tent (“come in my lord, come in with me”), as well as the fact that Sisera is in her tent, in the more dramatic version in Judges 5, this innuendo is more pronounced. Jael and Sisera seem to be up close and personal.
Judges 5:27 is worded in a suggestive way. (Note that the Hebrew word regel can mean both “foot” and/or “leg.”)
Between her legs he collapsed, he went limp and was lifeless; between her legs he collapsed and went limp, in the spot where he collapsed, there he went limp—violently murdered.
This verse may simply be describing the humiliation of Sisera’s death—his limp lifeless body collapsed at Jael’s feet. However, “feet” is sometimes used as a euphemism for genitals in the Hebrew Bible (cf. Deut. 28:57 NKJV). We see similar suggestive language in Ruth’s visit to the threshing floor where she uncovered Boaz’s “feet” (Ruth 3:4-8). Even though there is no explicit statement that sexual intercourse took place, the authors of these two episodes may want us to anticipate or wonder what is happening.
Despite the vagueness of the allusions to sex in Jael’s story, some claim that sex did take place. One rabbinic interpretation of Judges 5:27 is that Jael and Sisera had sex seven times. This idea is based on the number of occurrences of the words “bowed” (X3) “fell” (X3) and “lay” (X1) in this verse (see NASB) which add up to seven. Other rabbis, however, say that Sisera did not touch her.
Several scholars acknowledge that the language in Jael’s story is sexually charged even if no actual sexual activity took place. It’s possible that innuendo, or double-entendre, is being used as a literary device in Jael’s and Ruth’s stories simply for effect. It seems that ancient people, as with many people today, liked their songs and stories spiced up. The Israelites were more earthy than some of us like to think.
Jael as “Mother”
As well as sexual innuendo, there is maternal imagery in Jael’s story. In Judges 4 we see Jael covering the tired and scared Sisera with a blanket and giving him milk as though he is a little boy. Ironically, Sisera tells Jael, “If a man comes and asks you, ‘Is there a man here?’ say, ‘No’” (Judg. 4:20).
Tikva Frymer-Kensky sees Jael portrayed in terms of motherhood in Judges 4 and 5.
The stealthy heroine of the prose account and the fierce warrior of the poem are both dramatic inversions of motherhood. One offers maternal nurturing before she strikes, and the other stands with the slain foe between her legs in a grim parody of birth. When the greater world of national battles intrudes into her domestic space, this Kenite woman becomes one of the “mothers” of Israel.
Jacob Wright notes that the biblical texts present “the battlefield and the bed as antithetically gendered spaces” and that Jael defied this spatial polarity when she turned her bedroom (her intimate domestic space) into a battlefield.
Maternal and sexual imagery is used to enhance the storytelling, but Jael was not Sisera’s mother or lover. Instead, there is deadly determination in her actions. I’d love to know what was motivating her. Perhaps realising the Canaanites were losing, she simply switched her allegiance to the winning side, Israel, and killed Sisera to prove it. Or is there more to it?
Sexual Violence and Warfare
After Deborah and Jael, Sisera’s mother is the third woman mentioned in Judges 5. The song presents her waiting for her son’s return home, and the audience is reminded of the fact that sexual violence against women is often part of warfare.
Sisera’s mother looked through the window; she peered through the lattice, crying out:
“Why is his chariot so long in coming? Why don’t I hear the hoofbeats of his horses?”
Her wisest princesses answer her; she even answers herself:
“Are they not finding and dividing the spoil—a girl or two for each warrior,
the spoil of colored garments for Sisera, the spoil of an embroidered garment or two for my neck?” Judges 5:28-30 CSB
Jennifer L. Koosed comments on this passage:
This poignant moment turns gruesome when one of her servants assures the anxious mother that he is late because he is busy dividing the spoil: a girl (literally a “womb”) or two for every man (Judg. 5:30). Her words remind us that rape has been a weapon and sexual slavery a consequence of war for millennia. Jael’s actions can be understood as a reverse rape—seducing and killing the aggressor before he had a chance to rape her (and others).
One of the reasons Jael remains a popular figure is because she is controversial. She defies the feminine stereotypes of gentle mother and passive victim, and inverts them. Jael was treacherous and violent with Sisera, yet she is praised. More than that, God used her. The LORD did hand Sisera over to a woman, just as Deborah prophesied (Judg. 4:9 CEB).
In the middle ages, Jael and the violent blow she inflicted on Sisera was seen as a type of Mary the mother of Jesus crushing the head of Satan. I look at this in part 3.
 In Judges 4, there is little detail about the milk Jael served Sisera, and in part 1 I suggested the milk was given to make Sisera more sleepy. In Judges 5 we are given more detail and are told the milk, or curds, was served in a fancy bowl. The bowl is described in Hebrew as addir (אַדִּיר) an adjective that means powerful or majestic. This adjective may simply signify a large or ornate drinking vessel, but I wonder if it signified a special use. Was there something special about this vessel and its contents? Plant and animal products thought to have aphrodisiac qualities were sometimes mixed with milk.
 For example, George M. Schwab, Right in their Own Eyes: The Gospel According to Judges (Philipsburg: P&R Publishing, 2011), 83-87. However, Sisera was probably in no shape to have sex. In a forthcoming book on female agency in the Bible, Murray Gow notes, “From the moment Sisera abandons his chariot and his men to their fate, having more concern for his own skin, he is no longer a hero but a disgraced coward. So, when he enters Jael’s tent, it is as a fugitive, not for sexual conquest.”
 Tamar Kadari discusses rabbinic interpretations of Jael’s story in the Jewish Women’s Archive. I personally reject the idea that the seven words in Judges 5:27 have anything to do with the number of times Jael and Sisera supposedly had sex.
 Some people also see sexual innuendo in Rahab’s story (and not just because she was a prostitute). This innuendo is not necessarily intended to sexualise women, but to add tension and intrigue to the stories.
 Murray Gow highlights this irony in his forthcoming book.
 There was an ancient friendship between Israel and the Kenites, stretching back to Moses and Jethro. Heber broke with this friendship when he sided with Jabin and the Canaanites. Perhaps Jael’s loyalty was with the older alliance and against her husband’s newer alliance. Her disloyalty to her husband raises even more questions about her behaviour.
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