Submission is not necessarily to a person in authority
Wayne Grudem, among others, has made the statement that submission is always to a person in authority. He doesn’t believe submission can be mutual or reciprocal despite what it says in Ephesians 5:21 and 1 Peter 5:5 NKJV. Grudem even refers to mutual submission as a myth. I’ve written about his thoughts on mutual submission before, here, and mentioned most of the following information in a footnote, but I thought this topic needed to be highlighted in its own blog post.
The purpose of this post is simple: to use ancient texts that contain hypotassō to show that submission is not necessarily to a person in authority and that it can be mutual and beneficial.
In this article, I quote four prominent early Christian authors who speak positively about mutual submission among Jesus followers. But I begin with an example from a Jewish text that shows submission isn’t always to a person in authority. The following texts use the Greek word hypotassō (“submit”), the same word in Greek texts of Ephesians 5:21 and 1 Peter 5:5.
Submission in 2 Maccabees 13:23
Second Maccabees is a Jewish work originally written in Greek in around 150- 120 BCE. It recounts the story of the Jewish revolt against the Greek king Antiochus IV Epiphanes. It also recounts the conflict with his son.
In 2 Maccabees 13, the Jews are fighting back against the powerful forces of Antiochus V Eupator. However during the conflict, Antiochus hears that Philip, one of his generals, has revolted against him and intends to seize and take control of Antioch, the capital.
Antiochus, or rather his regent, knows he needs to act quickly. He needs to stop the fight with the Jews and go to Antioch to quell the revolt. So he “called in the Jews, yielded (hypotassō) and swore to observe all their rights, settled with them and offered sacrifice, honored the sanctuary and showed generosity to the holy place” (2 Macc. 13:23b NRSV)
This was a strategic move, and while it may have involved a degree of humiliation, Antiochus was not submitting to a higher authority. The NRSV translates hypotassō as “yielded” in 2 Maccabees 13:23. This act of yielding, or submission, was not mutual, but in several early Christian texts, the submission described is not to a person in authority and is mutual.
Mutual Submission in the Apostolic Fathers
Mutual Submission is mentioned in three letters contained in a collection of early Christian works known as the Apostolic Fathers. These letters were written to certain congregations in the late first to mid-second centuries.
Mutual Submission in First Clement
First Clement is a letter written from Rome to the Corinthians at the end of the first century. At the beginning of chapter 2, the Romans remind the Corinthians,
Moreover, you were all humble and free from arrogance, submitting rather than demanding submission, more glad to give than to receive … (1 Clem. 2:1, Michael Holmes’s translation).
In chapter 37, the author tells the Corinthians to serve as soldiers. Using the analogy of soldiering, he acknowledges differences in rank and function, but also says there is an advantage when there is a “blending” (sugkrasis) among, or between, the ranks.
He then uses the imagery of interdependence and mutuality within the body, and the Corinthians are urged to submit to their neighbour.
Let us take the body as an example. The head without the feet is nothing, likewise, the feet without the head are nothing. Even the smallest parts of our body are necessary and useful to the whole body, yet all the members coalesce harmoniously and unite in mutual subjection, so that the whole body may be saved.
So in our case let the whole body be saved in Christ Jesus, and let each of us be mutually subject to our neighbour, in proportion to each one’s spiritual gift. (1 Clem. 37:5-38:1, Holmes’s transl.).
In these quotations, the author links submission with humility, unity, spiritual giftedness, and even salvation. I recommend reading 1 Clement 37-38 in context.
Mutual Submission in Ignatius’s letter to the Magnesians
In around 110, Ignatius wrote a letter to the church at Magnesia. In one statement, he includes an instruction for submission to someone with authority, the bishop, as well as an instruction for mutual submission:
Submit to the bishop and to one another (Ign. Magn. 13:2).
The second phrase uses similar language to what Paul used in Ephesians 5:21: the Greek word meaning “to one another” (allēlois) in Magnesians 13:2 is identical to the word in Ephesians 5:21.
Ignatius goes on to give examples of submission and its aim.
… as Jesus Christ in the flesh was to the father, and as the apostles were to Christ and to the Father, that there may be unity, both physical and spiritual (Ign. Magn. 13:2, Holmes’s transl.).
We can model our submission as to a person with a higher level of authority or social status (cf. Eph. 5:22), and it can still be mutual and reciprocated. The aim of Christian submission isn’t subordination but unity.
Mutual Submission in Polycarp’s letter to the Philippians
Later in the first half of the second century, Polycarp wrote a letter to the Philippians and simply advised them, “All of you be submissive to one another …” (Pol. Phil. 10:2)
The author of 1 Clement (traditionally thought to be Clement the bishop of Rome), Ignatius (bishop of the church at Antioch) and Polycarp (bishop of the church at Smyrna) did not regard mutual submission as a myth. Instead, like Paul and Peter, they saw mutual submission as being vital for harmony and unity in the church (Eph. 5:21; 1 Pet. 5:5 NKJV).
Chrysostom on Mutual Service and Submission
John Chrysostom (archbishop of Constantinople between the years 398 and 405) was a native speaker of Greek. He understood Ephesians 5:21 to be about mutual, reciprocated submission and service, and he used the master-slave relationship to explain it.
Let there be an interchange of service and submission. For then there will be no such thing as slavish service. Let not one sit down in the rank of a freeman, and the other in the rank of a slave; rather it were better that both masters and slaves be servants to one another;—far better to be a slave in this way than free in any other. Homily 19 on Ephesians (Source: New Advent)
Chrysostom believed mutual service and submission would result in tasks being shared equitably, rather than some working harder than others. He wanted Christian masters and slaves to serve one another.
Unlike what some claim, submission is not necessarily to a person in authority. Moreover, three (or four) highly respected bishops of the Early Church recognised that mutual submission is beneficial for the church.
The Greek verb hypotassō can mean to be subordinate or be subject, but it need not have a harsh sense or a strong force especially among Christians where relationships are to be founded on love (John 13:34-35). Submission between Christians, including submission between Christian husbands and wives, should be characterised by humility, deference, cooperation, loyalty, and of course love.
Submission, like humility and meekness, should be a normal attitude or trait for all followers of Jesus.
… all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble.” 1 Peter 5:5b NKJV
All biblical instructions should be understood and implemented with kindness and commonsense. Generally speaking, submitting to foolish whims or to bullying is not kind, helpful, or healthy to either party.
 Antiochus V Eupator was ruler of the Greek Seleucid Empire from late 164 to 161 BC. He was the son and successor of the dreaded Antiochus IV Epiphanes. Antiochus V was only a boy when he reigned. The real ruler, and the real negotiator with the Jews, was his regent Lysias. More info here.
 The quotations from 1 Clement, Ignatius, and Polycarp’s letter that are marked as being translated by Michael Holmes are taken from The Apostolic Fathers, The Greek Texts and English Translations (3rd edition) edited and translated by Michael W. Holmes (Grand Rapids: Baker Academic, 2007).
 Polycarp’s letter was originally written in Greek, but this part of his letter only survives in Latin. However, he appears to have copied Paul’s wording, so it is reasonably safe to assume that Polycarp used the word hypotassō. Ephesians 5:21 in the Vulgate and Polycarp’s letter (10:2) contain the words subiecti invicem.
 The Christian texts cited are about mutual submission within Christian communities, in congregations, not in marriage. In First Clement and in Chrysostom’s sermons there are other passages about wifely submission (e.g., 1 Clem. 1:3b). These authors were not egalitarians or mutualists. And Ignatius is famous for advocating three-tiered hierarchical male leadership in churches. Nevertheless, I maintain that mutual submission in marriage is beneficial in the church and in marriage. Neither Jesus, Paul, or Peter ever tell husbands they are the authorities or leaders of their wives.
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