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Introduction

In my previous post, I gave an overview of what the Old Testament says about gender roles and gendered activities. In this post, I give an overview of what Jesus says about this. Did Jesus give instructions about gender roles as some Christians understand them: that men are to be leaders and women are to be submissive to male authority? Does Jesus affirm the idea, evident in the Old Testament, that the primary role of women is having children?

Gender Pairs in Luke’s Gospel

Jesus acknowledges gendered activities in his culture.

A few times, Jesus implicitly acknowledges that there are some activities in his culture that are more closely associated with women and others that are more closely associated with men. We see this especially in Luke’s Gospel where Jesus sometimes uses male and female pairs in his parables and when making certain points in his teaching.

In Luke 13, for example, Jesus tells the parable of a man planting a mustard seed, followed by the parable of a woman putting yeast in flour in preparation for baking bread. These were two activities men and women in Jesus’s audience could each identify with, but the point of the parables is exactly the same. However, while Jesus framed his teaching in a way that was sensitive to the culture of his day, he didn’t have one set of teachings for men and another for women. He taught men and women the same things.

What is even more remarkable about Jesus is that, a few times, he downplays accepted cultural roles of women and offers something better.

I’ve written more on the gender-pairs in Luke’s Gospel here.

Mary and Martha

Learning as a disciple is more necessary than being in the kitchen.

In the well-known story of Mary and Martha, Jesus does not uphold the socially expected role of women preparing and serving food. And hospitality was practically a sacred duty in that culture. Jesus did not comply with Martha’s request to get Mary into the kitchen (Luke 10:40).

It says in Luke 10:39 that Mary “sat at the Lord’s feet listening to his word.” Jesus remarks that Mary had chosen the best option, the necessary option, by sitting at his feet. This was the usual posture of a male disciple learning from a rabbi. Jesus regarded that learning as a disciple was more important for Mary than preparing and serving food. Furthermore, he says that what Mary has chosen, to be trained as a disciple, will not be taken away from her (Luke 10:42).

I’ve written more on Mary and Martha here.

Mary the Mother of Jesus

Hearing and obeying God’s word is more blessed than being a mother.

In another story, Jesus is teaching in the synagogue when a woman calls out and says, “Blessed is the mother who gave you birth and nursed you” (Luke 11:27). To have a grown son who was respected and prominent in society was one of the highest honours a woman in that culture could attain: the more honour a son had, the more honour his mother had. This dynamic still holds true in some cultures today.

But Jesus did not affirm the blessing that the woman had shouted out. Instead, he replied with, “Blessed rather are those who are hearing the word of God and obeying it” (Luke 11:28). Jesus’s mother Mary was blessed. She was not only blessed because of her remarkable role as the mother of the Messiah, she was blessed because she had faith in the word of God. The Bible says about Mary, “Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfil his promises to her!” (Luke 1:45). Faith in God and his word is more precious than being a mother.

Jesus never tells women, either plainly or implicitly, that being a wife and mother is their main role. But please don’t think I’m trying to denigrate being a mother. I love being a mother and a grandmother. Yet Jesus indicates that there is more to life for women than motherhood. I’ve written more about this here.

The Samaritan Woman

Jesus’s theology doesn’t uphold cultural stereotypes.

The longest conversation between Jesus and another person, which is recorded in the Gospels, is between Jesus and the woman at the well. Jesus and this Samaritan woman have an encounter that broke a few social taboos (as did other encounters between Jesus and women) and they discuss both theological and personal issues.

John doesn’t record in his Gospel that Jesus brings up motherhood with the Samaritan woman. In fact, no Gospel writer records that Jesus discusses motherhood in conversations with women. And Jesus doesn’t give dumbed-down theological teaching to women. He teaches them the same things, at the same level, as he teaches men (e.g., John 11:27 cf. Matt. 16:16).

I’ve written more on the Samaritan Woman here.

Jesus’s Female Disciples

Jesus had many female followers!

Jesus did other things that some Christians today may have trouble with, such as the fact that he accepted the financial support of his many female disciples (Luke 8:1-3), or even that he had many female disciples, women who travelled with Jesus around Galilee and went all the way to Jerusalem with him where they continued to provide for him. Then, after his resurrection, Jesus commissioned his female disciple Mary Magdalene to tell the others that he had risen from death.

Jesus did not shy away from the company of women. He welcomed women and treated them as capable human beings and he trained them for ministry. But some today seem more like the men in the Gospels who disapprove of (Mark 14:6; John 12:7), and disbelieve (Mark 16:10-11; Luke 24:10-11), women who minister. They don’t know what to make of capable women ministers.

I have more about Jesus’s many female followers here.

Calling and Authority

Jesus does acknowledge some cultural stereotypes of women’s activities in his parables and teaching, but he doesn’t state that these are rules to live by. And other stereotypes he downplays. He says there are better ways for women to live. Namely, being a disciple of Jesus, learning and obeying his word, is the highest calling for women just as it is for men.

Jesus is our Lord, our Shepherd, and our Mediator, not husbands. Jesus never broaches the subject of husbands as leaders or of wives being submissive. But he does talk about leadership where he warns disciples about titles and having authority over others. Christian ministry is not about having authority over fellow believers, it’s about service. Jesus reminds his disciples that they are all brothers and sisters. Sadly, Jesus’s vision and understanding of leadership and community has rarely, if ever, been fully realised.

I’ve written more about Jesus’s teaching on leadership and community here.

The Twelve Disciples

The Twelve is not a model of male-only leadership in the church.

But what about the fact that Jesus chose twelve men, and not one woman, as his first disciples, a fact that is often used to say women can’t be leaders in the church?

Jesus never says that he chose the Twelve as a model for church leadership. He never says only men can be leaders in the church. What Jesus does say is that the twelve were to be his witnesses (Luke 24:48; Acts 1:8 cf. Acts 2:32; 3:15; 5:32), and women were not considered to be credible witnesses at that time. Jesus also makes a connection between the twelve disciples and the twelve tribes of Israel (Matt. 19:28; Luke 22:29-30 cf. Rev. 21:12.14). He may have chosen the Twelve as a way of showing that his message, his ministry, and his New Covenant was for all of Israel.

Furthermore, he couldn’t have chosen Judas Iscariot to be a leader of the church. Judas makes the argument that Jesus chose the Twelve as a model for church leadership less compelling. There are a couple of other things, too, that make the argument untenable. Especially if we keep in mind that Jesus trained women as his disciples too.

I’ve written more about the fact that the Twelve were all men here.

Conclusion

Jesus’s words, as recorded in the Gospels, never sound anything like what some Christians say, that God has designed men to be leaders and women to be submissive to male authority. Rather, Jesus spoke to women as he spoke to men, with frankness and vital theology. He treated women with dignity and took a genuine interest in their wellbeing. Moreover, women were among Jesus’s most faithful disciples and he accepted their support and ministry.

© Margaret Mowczko 2018
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In my next post I look at what Paul says about complementarian gender roles in ministry and marriage, but, until then, here’s a short video by Carolyn Custis James. (See my previous post for a brief discussion on patriarchy.)

« Part One: Gender Roles and Gendered Activities in the Old Testament
» Part Three: Paul on Gender Roles in Marriage and Ministry

Explore more

Jesus had many female followers – many!
Jesus, Women and Theology: Jesus said to her . . . 
Male-Female Pairs and Parallelism in Luke’s Gospel
Mary, Martha and Lazarus of Bethany
The Samaritan Woman of Sychar (John 4)
Who was Mary the Magdalene?
What must a woman do to be saved? (1 Tim. 2:15)
Jesus’s Teaching on Leadership and Community in Matthew’s Gospel
The Twelve Disciples were all Male 

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10 thoughts on “Jesus on Gender Roles and Gendered Activities

  1. The book I have now completed and sent to a publisher, Marg, has a section called “The Women of the Gospels”.
    Mary and Martha, Jesus’ mother and Mary Magdalene each has a section.
    When published I’d like to send you a copy and if you approve, let it be known on your website that it is available.
    I’ve been contacted by the publisher who wrote that it “looks interesting” but wants to make a final decision later in the year on account of current deadlines to keep.
    I’ve mentioned in the section on 1 Tim 2:9-15 “Sitz Im Leben” (Bultmann). The writer is writing for the situation in which the church of the day found itself.

  2. PS: I’ve included TheSamaritan Woman (Photina) also. I meant to mention again the title of the coming book:
    “What the Bible REALLY Says About Women” which takes to task the complementarians or as Andrew Sloane calls them, “Subordinationists”.

    1. “Subordinationists” is an apt term. I hope it catches on. Still, it’s shame all the terms are so long: hierarchicalist, patriarchalist, complementarian. At least ours are a little shorter: egalitarian, mutualist.

      I look forward to reading your book, Tony.

      1. I AM BLESSED TO GET YOUR WRITINGS. THEY ARE SO HELPFUL TO ME AS A BISHOP. KEEP ON WRITING. Can you please share more stuff with me on my email?

        1. Hello Bheki, are you on Facebook? Perhaps you can contact me there and I can share articles with you there.
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  3. Marg, as always I deeply enjoy reading your articles. The last two articles that provide a summary and make a case, have been very interesting in that it becomes so evident there is a pattern through the OT and NT regarding gender roles that really cannot be denied. You identify the important distinctions, such as when you reference how while Jesus used the two parables sensitive to the culture, they also taught the same theological principles, that so often are overlooked. So grateful for your insightful and reasoned articles!

    1. Thanks, Anne. I’m looking forward to sharing what Paul says about this.

  4. Thank you for an informative, thoughtful and engaging read! I eagerly wait for the next article to this series!!

  5. Once again another great post. You summed it up perfectly. God Bless.

    1. Thanks CT. 🙂

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